Dilemma of Letting Go

Love is at its most exquisite form when it is truly given without bounds and reservations. is scent is at its peak, when we know that it is given to us because we deserve it, But accompanying the fact that no matter how fragrant Love could be, we should only embrace its warmth while it lasts, and freely open our arms when its time to say goodbye. The moment that we start loving another person, we should have put in our hearts that a genuine Love can only be measured by how much we made the other person happy, not by how long we have made them stayed with us.

It is a fact of Life that indeed, there are Love that grows, and Love that grows cold. There are moments that, even though we continue loving the person, it is not enough to keep the relationship going. That even in our hardest efforts to show them how much they mean to us, it is never enough to made them stay. More often than not, it is in our most desperate attempts to plead for their Love and Affection to hold them back, though we know in our hearts that the flame of their Love for us had already stopped burning. The reality of facing the world alone may be scary.But it will be more frightening to live in the world of Pretensions and Regrets.Because oftentimes, in reality no matter how sad it may be, it is in letting go that we truly express our love for the other person. not because we see the need to, but because, we know in our hearts that this may be the last opportunity that we have to make them feel the unconditional love that we are dying to continue to give them in spite of their rejection. The Art of Forgiveness and Moving on.

A dose of Bitterness is never a medicine to a broken heart. It is a one-way ticket to the road of Pretentions and Self-Deceit. The doors of the heart of the person who left may have closed right in front of our faces, but we should realize that the windows of Forgiveness have just been opened. It is true that most people who suffered from excruciating break-ups turned to "Anger" for companionship. The feeling The feeling of Betrayal is so contagious that we forget how much, even for once in our lives, the other person made us happy. It is normal to be angry somehow, because at first, there would be a lot of questions in our minds that could never be answered. That even though there may be a few answers, it would still seem to be vert difficult to grasp. Or maybe, still quite insufficient for us. It is a very enchanting fact of Life that we, as Humans, during those times that though we may have been deprived of the very thing that we chereished the most, it is in our inherent nature to strive to continue living and maintain the Faith and Passion that once burned in our hearts. Hatred and bitterness maybe a defense mechanism for a few, but dealing with Rejections through Acceptance that there are things beyond our abilities to control, will be a better remedy. We may try to make our way through suffering and agony by converting it into Anger, but it would be more painful for us, since we are forcing ourselves to forget the person by hating them or driving their presence away. Love, whether discontinued or going stronger, is still as splendid as we first felt it. It is the same "Love" that though grows in time, still as magical and mysterious as it ever was. There's nothing to be ashamed in loving the person who stopped loving us. this just proves that an unconditional love does not ask anything in return. the fact that we have given a chance to share and feel it, above al most important thing that counts.

It is not in loathing that we truly succeed in moving on with our lives. We should force ourselves to forget the person we had loved no matter how much pain and hurt they had given us. It will just eventually vanish when the right time comes. Because in truth, we may have lost it, but when we close our eyes and listen to the echoes of our hearts, we still hear that feeling resounding silently forever...not necessarily to the same person, but with the same feeling of "Love", as splendid as it had always been to the person truly meant for us. We should remember that we are "most human" when we accept things that we cannot change....and we are in out strongest state when we let go of Hatred and Despair.

There's a very thin line between Loving and Living. To love is to live Life to the fullest. We can only find genuine happiness when we truthfully breathe the fact that there are persons that will come in our lives that are not really meant for us... they maybe destined to teach us how to love or to be a test of our strength. God gave us the power to Love, but He is the only one who has the power to Heal. Remember, god cannot heal a broken heart if we dont give him all the pieces.