My Revenge

In life, there are two choices: to move forward or to stagnate...


If you want to move forward, you have to turn your back from the past and face the present and the future with your eyes wide open...


You do not leave our other foot stuck in the past.  If you do, you immobilize and your failure will hold you back.


You are left to cope with "what if's" and "should have's" and a pile of regrets.  Nothing changes.
and if you feel this way, you start to believe that nothing will change.  If you sincerely want to change, drop the anger, the pain, the disappointments and  sad experiences behind you.  It's hard to leave the past.  It's difficult to forgive and forget the people who may have hurt you.  But you have to do it for your own peace of mind.


If you truly want to be free, you mentally close the door of the past firmly behind you and open 
another door to freedom. When you leave the past behind,  you don't carry over it into your present life like a  mental chart of the things or actions other people did to you.  You do not spend three hours a day wringing your hand and trying to understand why the unfortunate 
incident happened.  You do not moan over the unfair judgment passed on to you.  What you do, if you want to get positively even, is to recover so fast. As one writer says, "living well is the best revenge"...


Life is determined by the choices we make.  They will either make or break our lives...
sometimes, we come out unscathed.  Usually, we don't know.  It is up to us to mend our 
torn selves and put them back to pieces.  Only when this is done, can we say that we are free from the negative, misleading past.


"Life can only be understood backward, but it must be lived forward..."

---Kat

Dilemma of Letting Go

Love is at its most exquisite form when it is truly given without bounds and reservations. is scent is at its peak, when we know that it is given to us because we deserve it, But accompanying the fact that no matter how fragrant Love could be, we should only embrace its warmth while it lasts, and freely open our arms when its time to say goodbye. The moment that we start loving another person, we should have put in our hearts that a genuine Love can only be measured by how much we made the other person happy, not by how long we have made them stayed with us.

It is a fact of Life that indeed, there are Love that grows, and Love that grows cold. There are moments that, even though we continue loving the person, it is not enough to keep the relationship going. That even in our hardest efforts to show them how much they mean to us, it is never enough to made them stay. More often than not, it is in our most desperate attempts to plead for their Love and Affection to hold them back, though we know in our hearts that the flame of their Love for us had already stopped burning. The reality of facing the world alone may be scary.But it will be more frightening to live in the world of Pretensions and Regrets.Because oftentimes, in reality no matter how sad it may be, it is in letting go that we truly express our love for the other person. not because we see the need to, but because, we know in our hearts that this may be the last opportunity that we have to make them feel the unconditional love that we are dying to continue to give them in spite of their rejection. The Art of Forgiveness and Moving on.

A dose of Bitterness is never a medicine to a broken heart. It is a one-way ticket to the road of Pretentions and Self-Deceit. The doors of the heart of the person who left may have closed right in front of our faces, but we should realize that the windows of Forgiveness have just been opened. It is true that most people who suffered from excruciating break-ups turned to "Anger" for companionship. The feeling The feeling of Betrayal is so contagious that we forget how much, even for once in our lives, the other person made us happy. It is normal to be angry somehow, because at first, there would be a lot of questions in our minds that could never be answered. That even though there may be a few answers, it would still seem to be vert difficult to grasp. Or maybe, still quite insufficient for us. It is a very enchanting fact of Life that we, as Humans, during those times that though we may have been deprived of the very thing that we chereished the most, it is in our inherent nature to strive to continue living and maintain the Faith and Passion that once burned in our hearts. Hatred and bitterness maybe a defense mechanism for a few, but dealing with Rejections through Acceptance that there are things beyond our abilities to control, will be a better remedy. We may try to make our way through suffering and agony by converting it into Anger, but it would be more painful for us, since we are forcing ourselves to forget the person by hating them or driving their presence away. Love, whether discontinued or going stronger, is still as splendid as we first felt it. It is the same "Love" that though grows in time, still as magical and mysterious as it ever was. There's nothing to be ashamed in loving the person who stopped loving us. this just proves that an unconditional love does not ask anything in return. the fact that we have given a chance to share and feel it, above al most important thing that counts.

It is not in loathing that we truly succeed in moving on with our lives. We should force ourselves to forget the person we had loved no matter how much pain and hurt they had given us. It will just eventually vanish when the right time comes. Because in truth, we may have lost it, but when we close our eyes and listen to the echoes of our hearts, we still hear that feeling resounding silently forever...not necessarily to the same person, but with the same feeling of "Love", as splendid as it had always been to the person truly meant for us. We should remember that we are "most human" when we accept things that we cannot change....and we are in out strongest state when we let go of Hatred and Despair.

There's a very thin line between Loving and Living. To love is to live Life to the fullest. We can only find genuine happiness when we truthfully breathe the fact that there are persons that will come in our lives that are not really meant for us... they maybe destined to teach us how to love or to be a test of our strength. God gave us the power to Love, but He is the only one who has the power to Heal. Remember, god cannot heal a broken heart if we dont give him all the pieces.

Pure Nonsens

Imagine that it were a line with numbers ..., -2, -1, 0, 1, 2, ... where -1 would be yesterday, -2 day before yesterday, 0 right now, 1 tomorrow and so on.
Just for the having the mental picture, imagine that the line got bended at the point 0, so that -1 overlaps 1, -2 overlaps 2 and so on. It does not mean that tomorrow is happening at the same time as yesterday (for example).  However, it means that once the line overlaps, from the point 0 you can go only in one direction. With physical laws that are created and meant to function "at all times" under given circumstances, what you do is bending that line.  Therefore, when you say "Ball is accelerating toward the ground" it does not matter whether it is yesterday, now or tomorrow. What matters is that you have bended that line and going only in one direction, away from 0, denoted by the word "accelerating".
If ball could exist in past and present at the same time where the line is bent, then you would say that it was going backward in past (away from "now") and toward in future (away from "now"). In both situations, it was reaching the ground. Since it cannot be reaching the ground in both situations (knowing that as you go toward the past, further away from the ground the ball was), then it means that a thing cannot exist in future and past at the same time. Perhaps things could oscilate between future and past, but they cannot exist in both. If they oscilate, according to things that I have said, it means that event which you use as a marker of time is put in a loop, thus oscilation is possible. If it oscilates and moves in one direction, away or toward the 0, then there are many loops of the time marker/s.
As you go on a bent line in one direction only, try to imagine that line as a straight line again. "Ball is accelerating toward the ground" is assuming that past, present and future do not matter, thus it acts as a dimension on its own. So, the presentation of the line becomes a line with time markers and a half-sphere with a center at 0 that changes its radius depending on "what is going on". If event is closer to "now" the radius of the half-sphere is smaller. If event is further away from now, radius of the half-sphere is greater. Reason why I represented is as a spere is simply because there are imaginary objects/situations/numbers/entities that can be taken into account, thus they contribute to the full spectra of the dimension that is introduced by "Ball is accelerating toward the ground". Lets say that above the line denoting time you have a sphere representing actual events, and below, a sphere representing imaginary events.
What I like about this idea is that you can observe more things at once, or fold the time-line at different points and get more spheres. With many of such spheres, the general dimension becomes represented as a wave, and this I will use to make a comment concerning the communication between past and future.
Recall the bent line again. What happens when you bend it again, lets say at some point that represents identical events of past and future? For example, my monitor was monitor yesterday and will be a monitor tomorrow, so that is where the bent line is bent. For now, I would like to ignore the 0 that represents the "now", and assume that we bended the line very far away from the 0. You would be observing four lines, where one identical event is where the bent line was bent again (which is a monitor). From that point, you can only go in one direction. Going in that direction, and oscilating between the lines is what happens when past and future communicate. How would going in that one direction look on the line that is completely unfolded? It would look like a wave, meaning that you had to have imaginary entities somewhere along the line.
Simply to conclude all of this, having the wave as a dimension that represents "Ball is accelerating toward the ground" means that in order to use the ball as the communication device between the past and future, you have to know the past as well as the future, simply because you had to have imaginary entities introduced. So, to communicate between the past and the future, you would have to be able to know the future, meaning, you would have to be able to predict the future to get rid of imaginary entities.
However, the future is not predictable (in a way that there are no imaginary entities) since there are always too many variables to consider, thus there is no communication between the future and the past.
I hope this makes some sense at least.
Thanks [for beer].  These were just my thoughts, nothing that I have researched, checked or critically analyzed.  I could be completely wrong. Maybe I will change my opinion, but this is how I think right now.
just got out from work and I'm so bored that's why i have nothing to do and just made my none sense blog...but try to think it over...

Love

Learn to love the people who are with you at

present. Forget the people in the past and thank

them for hurting you, which led you to love the

people you have right now.

When you love someone, you'll do crazy things

you can't explain, you'll deny the truth and believe

in lies. When you love someone, you sacrifice, give

everything you've got and don't think twice.

You risk it all no matter what.

Everything in life is temporary because everything

changes. That is why it takes courage to love,

knowing it might end anytime...having faith will

make it last.

Friends are not the one who laugh when you laugh

and cry when you cry. They are the ones who

make you laugh and stop you from crying.

Love is the feeling we fall in and out of, and every

time we fall off, we learn to hold on tighter...

hoping that next time, we may never have to let go.

They say when love knocks at your door, open it.

But do you know that sometimes love enters

through the back door and before you begin to

notice it, it's on it's way out.

Have you ever loved only to let it go?..

Have you ever hated someone and loved him so?..

Have you ever missed someone so bad it made

you cry?.. Have you ever seen someone left alone

without knowing why? ..

True: Lucky is the man who wins the first love of a

woman but luckier is the woman who wins the last

love of a man.

Love is not the right word to say when you feel

guilty nor the right word to say when you like a

person but love really matters when we share our

thoughts, our minds, and our hearts...

Life has a way of changing things but not the joy

that friendship brings, for friendship is like the

shining moon, makes each night a brighter one.

Love is not for beauty or color of the skin, but for a

heart that is loyal within, for beauty fades and the

skin would grow old but a heart that is loyal will

never turn cold.

If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your

heart, forgive them for they have helped you learn

about trust and the importance of being cautious

to whom you open your heart.

A love is easy to feel, so hard to explain; so easy

to get, so hard to let go; so easy to spell, so hard

to define...and yet everyone is still taking the risk.

That's love !

We are all a little weird and life's a little weird,

and when we find someone whose weirdness is

compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall

in love in mutual weirdness and call it LOVE!

Never be afraid to fall in love. It may hurt a lot, it

may give you aches and pain, but if you don't

follow your heart; in the end you will cry even more

for not giving love a chance.

Don't run ahead of God. Let Him direct your steps.

He has plans and He has His time. God's clock is

never one minute early nor one minute late. It

always strikes right on time.

If someone loves you, love them back not only

because they love you, but also because they are

teaching you to love and opening your heart and

eyes to things you have never seen or felt without

them.

The past is meant to be used as a tool for the

future. Bad experiences indeed make you bitter

but the lessons learned should make you better.

On letting go: it hurts to see someone you love

happy with somebody else; but wouldn't it hurt you

more to see that person unhappy...with you?

When you find arms that will hold you at your

weakest, eyes that will see you at your ugliest, lips

that will kiss you in both instances, and a heart

that will love you at your worst, then you have

found true love.

Someday, someone might come into your life and

love you in a way you always wanted.

If your someday was yesterday.. LEARN

If your someday is tomorrow.. HOPE

If your someday is today.. CHERISH.