My Revenge

In life, there are two choices: to move forward or to stagnate...


If you want to move forward, you have to turn your back from the past and face the present and the future with your eyes wide open...


You do not leave our other foot stuck in the past.  If you do, you immobilize and your failure will hold you back.


You are left to cope with "what if's" and "should have's" and a pile of regrets.  Nothing changes.
and if you feel this way, you start to believe that nothing will change.  If you sincerely want to change, drop the anger, the pain, the disappointments and  sad experiences behind you.  It's hard to leave the past.  It's difficult to forgive and forget the people who may have hurt you.  But you have to do it for your own peace of mind.


If you truly want to be free, you mentally close the door of the past firmly behind you and open 
another door to freedom. When you leave the past behind,  you don't carry over it into your present life like a  mental chart of the things or actions other people did to you.  You do not spend three hours a day wringing your hand and trying to understand why the unfortunate 
incident happened.  You do not moan over the unfair judgment passed on to you.  What you do, if you want to get positively even, is to recover so fast. As one writer says, "living well is the best revenge"...


Life is determined by the choices we make.  They will either make or break our lives...
sometimes, we come out unscathed.  Usually, we don't know.  It is up to us to mend our 
torn selves and put them back to pieces.  Only when this is done, can we say that we are free from the negative, misleading past.


"Life can only be understood backward, but it must be lived forward..."

---Kat